Crushing Codependency

“The author who benefits you most is not the one who tells you something you did not know before, but the one who gives expression to the truth that has been dumbly struggling in you for utterance.” —oswald chambers


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God has been present in my life since I was nine years old when I accepted Him as my Savior. Though I tried to stay close to Him, my sinful life of people pleasing to find affirmation in and through others kept me from an intimate relationship. A series of awakenings (the death of my husband, discovering I was codependent, and major depression) forced me into God’s arms, where, except for Him, there seemed to be nothing but darkness.

His promised to me was to lift me out of the slimy pit, put my feet on a firm foundation, and give me a new song. He also promised me that many would see the Lord and put their trust in Him.

As an author and in every area of my life, I desire to put God first in my life and love Him supremely. I pray that out of His love for me and my love for Him will flow everything else and every other desire in my life.


book Reviews

It amazes me how at times when we are spiraling into a deep hole of darkness our Heavenly Father shows us away to breathe again. And how to come out on the other end a better person. Thank you Mary for sharing and showing us we all have a giant to fight at some point in our life. But God shows us how merciful He truly is.
— J. Downing
Honest and at times raw, Mary gives us all the benefit of her hard-won wisdom, and a peek into the faith that has sustained her. We all need to hear what this beautiful and important book has to tell.
— L. Wood
Breathtakingly honest and raw, Mary writes her personal account of coming out of codependency with such vulnerability and transparency. This book inspired me to remember that there is life after relationship addiction and healing from the hurts with God’s help. You will be blessed as Mary shares from her heart.
— K. Austin